You’ve done the work. You’ve optimized, tracked, supplemented, and tried harder. And you still feel broken. That’s not a personal failure — it’s the predictable result of a culture that systematically dismisses midlife women’s physiological reality.
Low libido in perimenopause isn’t a hormone deficiency or a relationship failure — it’s your body asking whether it can afford connection right now. Desire requires surplus. When the system is depleted, the signal goes quiet.
